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The America I Still Believe In
As I sat down to write this on the eve of America's 250th birthday, I found myself thinking back over the past few weeks. I had just returned from my first New York City Pride celebration, standing along streets that have become synonymous with the ongoing struggle for equality. I thought about the thousands of people I have met through education, advocacy, community organizing, and simply living life over the past fifty years. I thought about raising my son, the lessons I ho
Garry Haraveth
Jul 35 min read


We Are More Than This
There are weeks that leave us searching for words. This has been one of them. Like many in the LGBTQ+ community, I was stunned by the news surrounding a prominent community leader. I didn't know the person personally, but I recognized their visibility and the role they played in our community. The allegations are deeply disturbing. If they are true, my heart breaks first and foremost for the child(ren) involved and for everyone whose trust has been shattered. Children deserve
Garry Haraveth
Jun 213 min read


What We Teach Our Children by What We Tolerate
Children are always watching. They learn what matters not primarily from what adults tell them, but from what adults do, especially in moments of tension, fear, and uncertainty. Long before they understand policy or politics, they absorb lessons about who belongs, who is protected, and what kind of behavior is acceptable when power is involved. Right now, our country is offering such a lesson. Over the past several weeks, immigration enforcement has once again intensified. Ra
Garry Haraveth
Jan 283 min read


How Trump’s Decline Endangers Democracy & the World
Strength is not bluster. Strength is not cruelty. Strength is not chaos. Real strength in leadership looks like restraint, accountability, respect for the law, and protection of the vulnerable. By those measures, Donald Trump is not a strong president. He is a dangerously weak one, hollowed out by legal exposure, moral compromise, economic mismanagement, eroding public trust, and a visible decline in judgment and capacity. This is not simply a story of bad decisions. It is t
Garry Haraveth
Jan 36 min read


When Counting Lies Stopped Mattering
There was a time when every falsehood from Donald Trump made headlines. Each lie was cataloged and fact-checked because truth mattered. But somewhere along the way, we stopped counting. Maybe it was exhaustion. Maybe it was cynicism. Or maybe we simply got used to being lied to. Accepting dishonesty as “just the way things are now” is how democracy erodes — not with one dramatic moment, but slowly, as we stop expecting honesty from those who lead us. Truth isn’t just a politi
Garry Haraveth
Nov 28, 20252 min read


The War on Trans Lives: How Fear Became a Political Strategy
Weaponizing Identity America is once again at war with itself, and transgender people have become the chosen battleground. In the run-up to the 2024 election, the GOP and MAGA movement poured tens of millions of dollars into one of the most coordinated attacks on a marginalized group in modern history. The target wasn’t crime, inflation, or national security. It was trans kids, trans athletes, and anyone whose existence dared to challenge rigid ideas of gender. The ads were
Garry Haraveth
Nov 5, 20253 min read


Time of Death: When Democracy Died in America
Democracy rarely dies in one decisive moment. It decays in fragments, stripped away one right, one safeguard, one illusion at a time. In...
Garry Haraveth
Aug 28, 20253 min read


Does Good Always Win in the End?
Does Good Always Win in the End? This past week, we witnessed what many of us feared and expected: the signing of the budget bill,...
Garry Haraveth
Jul 5, 20253 min read


Bleak, But Is It Broken? Can America Rebuild After Crisis?
“We’ve been here before. The question is: what will we do now?” There have been times in America’s history when the road ahead looked...
Garry Haraveth
May 11, 20254 min read


Live and Let Live: A New Umbrella for the Democratic Party
At a time when America feels more divided than ever, it’s fair to ask: what happened to the party that once championed the working class,...
Garry Haraveth
Apr 18, 20253 min read


Democracy on the Edge - When Money Comes First: How the Pursuit of Wealth Can Undermine Democracy
In a society that often equates success with financial gain, it’s not uncommon for individuals to prioritize money above all else....
Garry Haraveth
Apr 9, 20252 min read


No Confidence: The Democratic Capitulation to the Trump-Musk Regime
The ten Democratic senators who voted for the latest budget continuing resolution (CR) are facing an intense backlash from the left—and...
Garry Haraveth
Mar 15, 20254 min read


The Domino Effect of Erasure—Why Trans People Belong in the LGBTQ+ Community
The LGBTQ+ community has always been about advocacy, inclusion, and the fight for equality. Progress has been made for decades, hard-won...
Garry Haraveth
Feb 15, 20254 min read


Why Trump and White "Christian" Nationalism Are Attacking Trans People
Trans Identity Shatters Their Delicate Illusions of Gender Roles Over the past several years, attacks on transgender, genderqueer, and...
Garry Haraveth
Jan 22, 20254 min read


Bouncing Back with Flair: Resilience Tips A Drag Diva Would Approve Of
Resilience is like a fabulous runway strut: it’s all about confidence, adaptability, and flair. For LGBTQ+ individuals, the journey to...
Garry Haraveth
Dec 15, 20243 min read


Democracy on the Edge: You're Not Going to Like This… But We Need to Talk
It’s hard to imagine something more gut-wrenching for some of us than seeing Donald Trump reelected. For those who see his leadership as...
Garry Haraveth
Nov 24, 20245 min read


Building a Healthy Relationship with Anxiety
Anxiety is a common experience that can affect anyone, but for LGBTQ+ individuals, the unique pressures of identity, societal...
Garry Haraveth
Nov 20, 20244 min read


Democracy on the Edge: How Core Values Shape—and Threaten—Our Nation’s Future
In every democracy, an unspoken but vital agreement, known as the social contract , serves as the foundation upon which society is built....
Garry Haraveth
Nov 11, 20246 min read


Finding Empowerment & Community After the 2024 Election
The news hit like a cold wave: Donald Trump has won the 2024 presidential election. As an LGBTQ+ individual, I feel shaken, dismayed,...
Garry Haraveth
Nov 11, 20242 min read


Unlocking Motivation: A Journey from Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment
As an empowerment coach, my work centers around helping others find the drive to live their best, most authentic lives. But, if I’m being...
Garry Haraveth
Oct 22, 20244 min read
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